ENFJ

Extraverted iNtuitive Feeling Judging

Personality Traits:

  • More than anything, ENFJs are enthusiastic.
  • Energetic and excited about interacting with other children.
  • Enjoy team sports and group activities.
  • Smile easily.
  • Enjoy being the center of attention.
  • Socially confident.
  • People pleasers.
  • Strong desire to nurture.
  • Enjoy role playing games putting them in a care-taking position, such as nurse, doctor, parent.
  • Become attached to stuffed animals or loveys.
  • Physically affectionate.
  • Enjoy learning new things.
  • Need and seek praise.
  • Need routine and structure.
  • Tactful from an early age.

What the Parent of an ENFJ needs to know:

  • Easily wounded, and quick to forgive upon receiving an apology.
  • Deeply hurt when a parent yells or speaks sharply to them.
  • Strong need for harmony. Conflict is a huge stressor.
  • Best to allow the child to feel what they feel, when they feel it. They will quickly move through their feelings when this is allowed.
  • Instead of yelling, influence by validating their feelings and helping them come up with solutions and alternative responses.
  • Easily  manipulated due to their need to please
  • Quick to self-sacrifice to please others
  • Can get cranky with insufficient time socializing with other children
  • When learning, they’re motivated by connection to others. The more they like the teacher, the harder they will work to please the teacher.
  • Writing can be a good outlet for their creativity
  • All it takes is one negative criticism from a parent to make them question the parent’s love for them.
  • Be a good listener and serve as an outlet for them to express their feelings. Often.
  • Need frequent reminders of your love and acceptance of them.
  • Offer lots of physical affection.
  • Support their imagination and need for make-believe play.
  • Provide lots of opportunities for crafts and art play. Demonstrate pride in their creations by hanging them up around the house.
  • Need 1:1 time with their parents.
  • Empower them to make decisions as much as possible.
  • Silent treating them will make them feel abandoned. It’s unproductive. If you need space, remind them of your love for them and let them know you simply  need to take a little time to recharge.
  • Remind them they are perfectly ok just as they are. They will be harder on themselves than you ever could be.
  • Teach them how to respond to conflict, and how to speak up as necessary, even if it may hurt someone’s feelings.

Now that you’ve taken the personality type assessment for your child, read on to understand their preferred learning style.

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